{"id":10972,"date":"2025-11-17T15:41:45","date_gmt":"2025-11-17T20:41:45","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/grievingmaman.com\/?p=10972"},"modified":"2025-11-17T20:11:40","modified_gmt":"2025-11-18T01:11:40","slug":"hes-been-gone-longer-than-the-years-he-was-here","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/grievingmaman.com\/fr\/2025\/11\/17\/son-absence-depasse-son-temps-sur-terre\/","title":{"rendered":"Son absence d\u00e9passe maintenant son temps sur terre"},"content":{"rendered":"<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Son absence d\u00e9passe maintenant son temps sur terre<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">For the English version, click \"EN\" at top-right of the menu <a href=\"https:\/\/grievingmaman.com\/fr\/2025\/11\/17\/son-absence-depasse-son-temps-sur-terre\/\">\u2630<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-drop-cap wp-block-paragraph\">Il y a six ans aujourd\u2019hui, le 17 novembre, mon petit Zacka\u00ebl nous a quitt\u00e9s apr\u00e8s un tragique accident. Pas un jour ne passe sans que je pense \u00e0 lui. Il \u00e9tait le gar\u00e7on le plus gentil au monde : doux, attentionn\u00e9 et rempli d\u2019amour.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Perdre un enfant change la fa\u00e7on dont le temps existe. Les ann\u00e9es que nous avons eues avec lui sont moins nombreuses que celles que nous avons maintenant sans lui, mais ces moments \u2014 chaque rire, chaque geste, chaque regard \u2014 portent plus de poids que la vie qu'il nous reste. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">On dit que le temps gu\u00e9rit les blessures, mais ceci ne s'applique pas pour la perte d\u2019un enfant. Le temps n\u2019adoucit rien, n\u2019efface rien et n\u2019att\u00e9nue pas la douleur. Le temps avance simplement, tandis que l\u2019amour reste immobile, aussi puissant que le jour o\u00f9 Zacka\u00ebl \u00e9tait ici. Il n\u2019y a pas de gu\u00e9rison \u00e0 travers le temps ; il n\u2019y a que l\u2019apprentissage de vivre dans un monde o\u00f9 l\u2019amour demeure, mais l'o\u00f9 l\u2019enfant que j\u2019aime n\u2019y est plus.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Je souhaite souvent pouvoir remonter le temps et le reprendre dans mes bras, et ne jamais le laisser partir. Dans les ann\u00e9es qui ont suivi l\u2019accident, il m\u2019arrivait parfois de faire un r\u00eave r\u00e9current o\u00f9 j\u2019obtenais enfin ce dernier c\u00e2lin que je n\u2019ai jamais eu. C\u2019\u00e9tait comme si mon esprit savait \u00e0 quel point ce c\u00e2lin manquant (que je n'ai pas pu donner) \u00e9tait n\u00e9cessaire, et tentait de me le redonner. 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