{"id":1706,"date":"2021-02-12T18:08:37","date_gmt":"2021-02-12T23:08:37","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/grievingmaman.com\/?p=1706"},"modified":"2021-09-14T13:59:47","modified_gmt":"2021-09-14T17:59:47","slug":"writingyourgrief-day3","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/grievingmaman.com\/fr\/2021\/02\/12\/writingyourgrief-day3\/","title":{"rendered":"Comment vivez-vous dans un paysage si profond\u00e9ment chang\u00e9?"},"content":{"rendered":"

For the English version, click \"EN\" at top-right of the menu \u2630<\/span><\/span><\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Dans la publication de hier<\/a>, j\u2019ai mentionn\u00e9 que je viens de commencer un cours sur le deuil. Le cours s\u2019appelle Writing Your Grief (\u00c9crire notre deuil)<\/a>. Chaque jour, nous recevons un e-mail avec une invitation qui nous encourage \u00e0 explorer un aspect de notre deuil.

Aujourd'hui, est le jour #3. Jusqu'\u00e0 pr\u00e9sent, je n'ai partag\u00e9 aucune de mes r\u00e9ponses avec le public, mais je d\u00e9cide de partager celle-ci. Sans entrer dans les d\u00e9tails, le sujet d\u2019aujourd\u2019hui est de savoir comment vivons-nous dans un paysage qui a chang\u00e9 (je vivais dans la for\u00eat, maintenant je vis dans le d\u00e9sert).

Voici mon histoire qui fait allusion \u00e0 l'invitation d\u2019aujourd\u2019hui. Pour ceux qui ne connaissaient pas Zacka\u00ebl, je veux juste mentionner que sauter \u00e9tait l\u2019activit\u00e9 pr\u00e9f\u00e9r\u00e9e de Zacka\u00ebl. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Comment vivez-vous dans un paysage si profond\u00e9ment chang\u00e9?<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Nous vivions dans une for\u00eat tropicale. Carl, Maxandre, Zacka\u00ebl, Ad\u00e9lie et moi avions m\u00eame construit une petite cabane dans les arbres.

Chaque jour, la richesse de la for\u00eat nous faisait d\u00e9couvrir la vie. La diversit\u00e9 des plantes et des animaux nous faisait vivre des exp\u00e9riences compl\u00e8tement diff\u00e9rentes. Nous \u00e9tions tellement bien entour\u00e9s. Nous nous r\u00e9veillions au bruit des oiseaux et comptions les papillons qui venaient \u00e0 nous.

Dans la for\u00eat, l\u2019air \u00e9tait pur et frais. Apr\u00e8s la pluie, il y avait toujours du beau temps. L\u2019alternance entre la pluie et le soleil apportait la vari\u00e9t\u00e9 dans nos activit\u00e9s.

Dans le reflet des gouttes de pluie sur les feuilles, nous y voyions notre joie de vivre.

D\u2019arbre en arbre, nous accrochions des cordes et rebondissions chacun \u00e0 notre tour. Notre petit Zacka\u00ebl, habile comme il a toujours \u00e9t\u00e9, culbutait dans les airs pour se balancer avec aisance entre les arbres. La pure joie!

Maxandre et Zacka\u00ebl agrippaient leur petite s\u0153ur avec eux et les trois s\u2019\u00e9lan\u00e7aient avec un grand \u00e9lan.

D'un blanc \u00e9clatant, les beaux gros nuages nous permettaient de sauter dessus jusqu\u2019au ciel. Quel plaisir! Notre petit athl\u00e8te Zacka\u00ebl s\u2019amusait \u00e0 faire de belles pirouettes.

Le vert des arbres, la couleur favorite de Zacka\u00ebl \u00e9tait d\u2019un vert riche qui allait au-del\u00e0 de la nature.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Cependant, le 17 novembre 2019,<\/strong> sans aucun avertissement, nous avons \u00e9t\u00e9 d\u00e9port\u00e9s dans un d\u00e9sert. Nous ne savons pas vraiment comment cela s\u2019est pass\u00e9. Ce jour-l\u00e0, nous ne pouvions plus voir la for\u00eat.

\u00c0 partir de ce jour, nous savions que nous \u00e9tions dans le d\u00e9sert.

Au d\u00e9but, le vent soufflait tr\u00e8s fort, on aurait dit une temp\u00eate de sable. Le vent emportait les fines particules de sable et de poussi\u00e8re qui rentraient dans nos yeux. Nous avions de la mis\u00e8re \u00e0 voir devant.

Apr\u00e8s la temp\u00eate, nous r\u00e9alisons peu \u00e0 peu que Zacka\u00ebl est parti pour toujours. Il ne reviendra pas. Autant qu\u2019il aimait sauter jusqu\u2019au ciel, il est maintenant rendu au ciel. Le ciel n\u2019a plus de nuages. Notre Zacka\u00ebl ne peut plus sauter; son dernier saut \u00e9tait tellement haut qui est parti rejoindre les \u00e9toiles.

Il n\u2019y a plus de cabane pour nous prot\u00e9ger, nous n\u2019avons que l\u2019un de l\u2019autre. Nous \u00e9tions cinq, mais maintenant nous sommes quatre. Seuls les quatre d'entre nous sont coinc\u00e9s dans ce d\u00e9sert.

La pluie de la for\u00eat est maintenant transform\u00e9e en larmes. La chaleur intense du d\u00e9sert ne fait que s\u00e9cher nos larmes aussit\u00f4t qu\u2019elles coulent sur nos joues.

D\u00e9pourvu de v\u00e9g\u00e9tation et inhospitalier, la vie n\u2019y est presque plus; seulement un petit cactus ici et l\u00e0. Attention, n\u2019y touche pas, ils sont pleins d\u2019\u00e9pines.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Maxandre est allong\u00e9 sur le sable. Il est essouffl\u00e9 et regarde le ciel pour tenter de voir son fr\u00e8re. Mais le soleil est trop aveuglant et Maxandre regarde ailleurs.

Le regard de Maxandre se porte donc vers la petite Ad\u00e9lie. Sa petite s\u0153ur qui a \u00e9t\u00e9 bless\u00e9e par une b\u00eate de 1 100 livres. Malgr\u00e9 sa petite taille, Ad\u00e9lie est forte et nous encourage avec son beau sourire de continuer le long parcours.

Carl et moi essayons tant bien que mal de monter notre propre chameau. Je suis fr\u00eale et je n\u2019ai pas d\u2019\u00e9nergie, mais je fais de mon possible pour que le chameau avance. Deux chameaux qui d\u00e9ambulent lentement mais s\u00fbrement.

Nous tentons de remonter Maxandre sur le chameau que je conduis. Maxandre doit s\u2019agripper \u00e0 moi. Nous nous supportons l\u2019un et l\u2019autre.

Sur l\u2019autre chameau, Carl porte Ad\u00e9lie dans ses bras. Carl est d\u00e9j\u00e0 fatigu\u00e9. C\u2019est difficile de naviguer avec toute cette pesanteur et avec qu\u2019un seul bras libre.

Nous ne savons pas o\u00f9 ces chameaux nous m\u00e8neront. \u00c7a fait une \u00e9ternit\u00e9 que nous d\u00e9ambulons vers l\u2019inconnu. Les jours se ressemblent. Chaque jour, la chaleur est accablante et pesante.

Les dos bossus des chameaux sont d\u2019un inconfort indescriptible. Plusieurs fois par jour, nous aimerions nous faire laisser tomber \u00e0 plein ventre dans le sable, pour ainsi se laisser morfondre. Mais le soleil est trop fort et nous br\u00fblera. Nous n\u2019avons pas ce temps.

Nous gardons espoir et s\u2019effor\u00e7ons de garder l\u2019\u00e9quilibre. Les chutes sont dangereuses et il faut tenir bon. Le sable est profond et il faut faire attention pour ne pas couler.

\u00c0 chaque jour, nous parcourons des kilom\u00e8tres. Le paysage est s\u00e8che et toujours le m\u00eame. On n\u2019y voit pas de fin.

Pourquoi sommes-nous seuls dans cette grande souffrance? Qu\u2019avons-nous fait pour \u00eatre transf\u00e9r\u00e9s ici? Quand serons-nous transf\u00e9r\u00e9s de ce d\u00e9sert pour retrouver notre for\u00eat?

Au loin, nous apercevons enfin une vall\u00e9e. Allons-y et prenons du repos. Peut-\u00eatre que nous y retrouverons un oasis?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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C\u2019est tout pour l\u2019instant!
Merci de continuer \u00e0 laisser des commentaires et de m\u2019envoyer des messages, ils sont toujours appr\u00e9ci\u00e9s!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Si vous souhaitez recevoir ma prochaine publication, vous pouvez cliquer sur \u00abS'abonner par courriel\u00bb.
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