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For the English version, switch from FR to EN on the menu above \u2630<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Avant de commencer, j\u2019aimerais souligner que si vous pleurez en lisant cette publication (ou une autre), dites-vous que c\u2019est bon de sortir les \u00e9motions et que pleurer est bon pour la sant\u00e9. De plus, en nous appuyant et en lisant ces publications, vous \u00eates empathiques envers nous et envers la vie de Zacka\u00ebl.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I sincerely want to thank those of you who took the time to write a comment on my Youtube video, I really appreciate it since it took me a long time to create it!  As you may know, Youtube’s algorithm is based on the user\u2019s feedback, in addition to the “likes”. Without a certain number of comments, my video will not show up in searches due to the videos\u2019 search rankings. Thank you in advance to those of you who will add a comment (doesn\u2019t have to be long!), share the video and click \u201cLike\u201d on both videos (Fran\u00e7ais<\/a> et Anglais<\/a>).<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Lundi le 1er novembre<\/h4>\n\n\n\n

Ma premi\u00e8re semaine de novembre a \u00e9t\u00e9 tr\u00e8s mouvement\u00e9e et remplie d\u2019\u00e9motions. Premi\u00e8rement, le lundi 1er novembre a d\u00e9but\u00e9 avec un r\u00eave dysphorique qui m\u2019a r\u00e9veill\u00e9e \u00e0 3 heures du matin.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00c7a faisait un bout de temps que je n\u2019avais pas r\u00eav\u00e9 \u00e0 Zacka\u00ebl. Depuis l\u2019accident, j\u2019ai d\u00fb faire environ 15 \u00e0 20 r\u00eaves de ce genre. En revanche, pour sa part, Carl se rappelle d\u2019un seul. C\u2019est surprenant comment \u00e7a m\u2019arrive beaucoup plus souvent. \u00ab Ce genre \u00bb de r\u00eave, ce sont les r\u00eaves avec notre \u00eatre cher, pour ensuite se r\u00e9veiller tout chamboul\u00e9, avec tellement d\u2019\u00e9motions qu\u2019il devient impossible de se rendormir facilement. Pour vous donner une id\u00e9e, voici la description de mon r\u00eave.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Zacka\u00ebl dormait paisiblement dans un lit qui ne m\u2019\u00e9tait pas familier. J\u2019\u00e9tais \u00e0 sa gauche, je l\u2019observais, d\u2019une certaine distance. Je venais d\u2019apprendre qu\u2019il \u00e9tait pour mourir, et on me laissait l\u2019option d\u2019aller le voir, ou de le laisser dormir. (Note : Je ne sais pas o\u00f9 j\u2019\u00e9tais et qui est la personne qui m\u2019avait donn\u00e9 cette option).<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u2019\u00e9tait sa derni\u00e8re nuit. Je ressentais la pression intense de prendre une d\u00e9cision (aller le voir ou non). Mon c\u0153ur avait de la difficult\u00e9, c\u2019\u00e9tait tr\u00e8s p\u00e9nible. Finalement, j\u2019ai d\u00e9cid\u00e9 d\u2019aller le voir pour une derni\u00e8re fois. Je me suis approch\u00e9e de lui. Mon ombre et ma pr\u00e9sence l\u2019ont r\u00e9veill\u00e9. Il a ouvert les yeux et m\u2019a fait un sourire, mais a pliss\u00e9 des yeux en m\u00eame temps. Il m\u2019a demand\u00e9 doucement de \u00ab baisser la lumi\u00e8re \u00bb car elle \u00e9tait trop forte pour ses petits yeux fatigu\u00e9s qui venaient d\u2019ouvrir.<\/em> \u2013 et l\u00e0 je me suis r\u00e9veill\u00e9e.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Me r\u00e9veillant en sanglots, \u00e7a m\u2019a pris environ 30 minutes pour calmer mes \u00e9motions, et 1 heure et demie pour r\u00e9ussir \u00e0 me rendormir. Comment le traumatisme affecte les r\u00eaves est un sujet que je pr\u00e9vois aborder dans ce blogue.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Cons\u00e9quemment, j\u2019avais la larme \u00e0 l\u2019oeil tout au long de la journ\u00e9e. Ce qui est bizarre est que la m\u00eame journ\u00e9e, la pierre tombale de Zacka\u00ebl se faisait install\u00e9e au cimeti\u00e8re. De plus, par coincidence (ou non), le 1er novembre est aussi la f\u00eate des \u00e2mes (et la Toussaint), le d\u00e9but du mois des morts, et dans certains pays le jour pour honorer les enfants d\u00e9c\u00e9d\u00e9s ; le jour des petits anges (\u00ab D\u00eda de los Angelitos \u00bb).<\/p>\n\n\n\n

D\u00eda de los Angelitos a lieu la veille des grands \u00e9v\u00e9nements du 2 novembre (le jour des morts). On dit que les esprits des enfants sont si impatients de revenir \u00e0 ce monde des vivants, qu'ils devancent les adultes, et arrivent et nous visitent ainsi une nuit plus t\u00f4t que les adultes. <\/em><\/p>https:\/\/danestrom.com\/dia-de-los-angelitos-remembering-children-day-dead\/<\/a><\/span><\/em><\/cite><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

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C'est comme si Zacka\u00ebl m'avait rendue visite, \u00e0 travers mes r\u00eaves, en me rappelant \u00ab Maman, je suis toujours l\u00e0 \u00bb\u2026, et en plus, le jour o\u00f9 \u00ab les esprits des enfants reviennent \u00bb comme cit\u00e9 plus haut. Et sachez que je n'avais pas pens\u00e9 \u00e0 la signification du 1er novembre ou de la pierre tombale avant d'aller me coucher ce soir-l\u00e0, je l'ai r\u00e9alis\u00e9 que plus tard dans la semaine. Comme toujours, je lui dis \"Bien s\u00fbr, mon lapin d'amour<\/em>, tu es toujours ici, dans mon coeur\".<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Plus tard la m\u00eame journ\u00e9e, j\u2019ai re\u00e7u les nouveaux panneaux et auto-collants que j\u2019avais command\u00e9s en l\u2019honneur de Zacka\u00ebl. Les panneaux sont pour le m\u00e9morial au bord de la route et la fa\u00e7ade de notre maison. Quant aux auto-collants, ils peuvent \u00eatre plac\u00e9s sur des casques de hockey. J'en ai notamment donn\u00e9 aux joueurs de l\u2019\u00e9quipe \u00e0 Maxandre. Si vous aimeriez un auto-collant pour honorer Zacka\u00ebl, envoyez-moi un message et il me fera plaisir de vous en garder (m\u00eame si vous ne l'avez pas connu)!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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En ce qui a trait aux panneaux, ils comprendront d'autres photos de Zacka\u00ebl. La photo ci-dessous d\u00e9montre un exemple du premier panneau avec la configuration de l'ann\u00e9e derni\u00e8re. Je vais encore pr\u00e9parer quelque chose cette ann\u00e9e. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Le panneau de l'an pass\u00e9 (en face de notre maison)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

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Mardi le 2 novembre<\/h4>\n\n\n\n

Le lendemain, puisque ma maman \u00e9tait en ville, nous en avions profit\u00e9 pour planifier un d\u00eener avec des oncles et tantes du c\u00f4t\u00e9 de ma m\u00e8re. Apr\u00e8s le d\u00eener, nous avons visit\u00e9, pour la premi\u00e8re fois, la pierre tombale du cimeti\u00e8re. Celle-ci venait tout juste d'\u00eatre install\u00e9e. Mes \u00e9motions n\u2019ont pas trop surgi, s\u00fbrement d\u00fb au fait que j\u2019en avais pleur\u00e9 un coup la journ\u00e9e d\u2019avant. La semaine prochaine, j'\u00e9crirai une autre publication sur la pierre tombale avec plus d'informations (emplacement pr\u00e9cis, photos, etc.). <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mercredi le 3 novembre<\/h4>\n\n\n\n

Mercredi le 3 novembre, je me suis rendue pour la premi\u00e8re fois \u00e0 l\u2019endroit de l\u2019accident. L'an pass\u00e9, Carl y \u00e9tait all\u00e9 pour installer le monument avec l\u2019aide de ses amis. Cette ann\u00e9e, puisque nous venions de recevoir le panneau et que ma m\u00e8re \u00e9tait encore avec nous, nous avons d\u00e9cid\u00e9, \u00e0 la derni\u00e8re minute de se rendre tous ensemble.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ma prochaine publication portera sur mon exp\u00e9rience sur le lieu de l\u2019accident. Notamment, j\u2019inclurai les photos des ajouts que nous avons faits au bord de la route, ainsi que mon impression vis-\u00e0-vis cette r\u00e9gion situ\u00e9e en Outaouais (territoire de la MRC de Papineau). Je joins ici<\/a> le lien \u00e0 la publication de Carl de l\u2019an pass\u00e9 quand il s\u2019est rendu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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C\u2019est tout pour l\u2019instant!
Merci de continuer \u00e0 laisser des commentaires et de m\u2019envoyer des messages, ils sont toujours appr\u00e9ci\u00e9s!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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