{"id":4033,"date":"2022-03-12T10:29:00","date_gmt":"2022-03-12T15:29:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/grievingmaman.com\/?p=4033"},"modified":"2022-04-07T18:44:09","modified_gmt":"2022-04-07T22:44:09","slug":"what-not-to-say-to-someone-who-is-grieving-10-things-to-avoid","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/grievingmaman.com\/fr\/2022\/03\/12\/quoi-dire-et-ne-pas-dire-personne-en-deuil-10-expressions-eviter\/","title":{"rendered":"Quoi ne PAS dire \u00e0 quelqu'un en deuil : 10 expressions \u00e0 \u00e9viter"},"content":{"rendered":"

For the English version, switch from FR to EN on the menu above \u2630<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Habituellement, nos proches ont de bonnes intentions : ils veulent que nous sentions mieux dans notre deuil. Ils ne veulent certainement pas nous faire plus de peine, et ils sont peut-\u00eatre terrifi\u00e9s de dire la mauvaise chose. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Malheureusement, notre soci\u00e9t\u00e9 manque une certaine \u00e9ducation sur le sujet du deuil. Comment r\u00e9agir face au deuil et \u00e0 la maladie n'est pas un sujet qui fait partie du programme scolaire. Au lieu, on nous apprend et nous \u00e9l\u00e8ve \u00e0 \u00eatre positif, \u00e0 \u00abr\u00e9parer\u00bb les choses qui vont mal et \u00e0 trouver des solutions quand quelqu'un est triste. C'est l\u00e0 que nous avons tort. Le deuil n'est pas quelque chose qui est bris\u00e9, c'est simplement une r\u00e9action naturelle \u00e0 une grande perte.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Si la personne en deuil est un proche, nous devons faire un effort pour l'accompagner dans le deuil. Nous n'avons pas n\u00e9cessairement besoin d'avoir les mots parfaits. \u00c0 priori, le soutien \u00e9motionnel est crucial. Vous devez avoir la volont\u00e9 de parler de la personne d\u00e9c\u00e9d\u00e9e. Vous devriez continuer \u00e0 demander \u00e0 la personne endeuill\u00e9e comment elle se sent, m\u00eame si cela fait des mois. \u00catre empathique, c'est aussi l'accompagner dans son cheminement de deuil et les projets qu'elle entreprend. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Avant d'\u00e9crire une publication sur Quoi faire<\/strong> lorsque quelqu'un vit un deuil (ou est malade) et Quoi dire<\/strong>, je veux commencer par une liste d'expressions que nous devrions \u00e9viter. Il sera alors plus facile d'expliquer les raisons de les \u00e9viter, ainsi que ce que l'on devrait dire \u00e0 la place. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ce que je retiens le plus de mes conversations avec d'autres endeuill\u00e9s, est que non seulement ils souffrent, mais ils sentent souvent m\u00e9compris par les autres. Notamment, une des remarques qui revient r\u00e9guli\u00e8rement se rapporte aux mots et aux actions des proches. Les endeuill\u00e9s sont bless\u00e9s par certains commentaires, tels : \u00ab Passe \u00e0 autre chose \u00bb, \u00ab Au moins, tu\u2026 \u00bb ou \u00ab Tu devrais\u2026 \u00bb. Non seulement de tels commentaires sont superflus, ils d\u00e9montrent un manque d\u2019empathie envers l\u2019endeuill\u00e9.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

10 choses \u00e0 ne PAS dire \u00e0 quelqu'un qui vit un deuil<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n
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Pour conclure, j'inclus un lien \u00e0 une publication pr\u00e9c\u00e9dente<\/a> que j'ai r\u00e9cemment mise \u00e0 jour et am\u00e9lior\u00e9e, y compris plus d'infographies ! La publication explique les diff\u00e9rences entre la piti\u00e9, la sympathie, l'empathie et la compassion. Elle aide \u00e0 la compr\u00e9hension et l'identification des gestes emphatiques et de ce qu'il faut faire pour devenir plus empathique et compatissant. N'oublions pas que l'empathie est la pierre angulaire de l'intelligence \u00e9motionnelle. Voici un aper\u00e7u de la publication<\/a>, vous devriez la v\u00e9rifier!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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C\u2019est tout pour l\u2019instant!
Vous \u00eates surpris par l'une des expressions ci-dessus et aimeriez mieux comprendre pourquoi il faut les \u00e9viter ?
Merci de continuer \u00e0 laisser des commentaires et de m\u2019envoyer des messages, ils sont toujours appr\u00e9ci\u00e9s!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Si vous souhaitez recevoir nos prochaines publications, vous pouvez cliquer sur \u00abS'abonner par courriel\u00bb.
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