{"id":4145,"date":"2022-04-13T13:13:00","date_gmt":"2022-04-13T17:13:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/grievingmaman.com\/?p=4145"},"modified":"2022-04-30T13:27:02","modified_gmt":"2022-04-30T17:27:02","slug":"what-to-say-to-someone-who-is-grieving","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/grievingmaman.com\/fr\/2022\/04\/13\/quoi-dire-a-une-personne-en-deuil\/","title":{"rendered":"Quoi dire \u00e0 une personne en deuil"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Lorsque que l'on parle \u00e0 une personne en deuil, il peut \u00eatre difficile de savoir quoi dire. Dans ma publication pr\u00e9c\u00e9dente, j'avais partag\u00e9 10 des pires choses \u00e0 dire \u00e0 un(e) endeuill\u00e9(e). Comme promis, la publication d'aujourd'hui comprend aussi des exemples concrets de ce que l'on devrait dire au lieu<\/span>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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L'infographie comprend 15 expressions \u00ab \u00e0 ne pas dire \u00bb. \u00c0 la droite, on retrouve les raisons pour lesquelles il faut les \u00e9viter. Les coches vertes d\u00e9montrent de meilleures alternatives pour aider une personne en deuil. <\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n

Extrait de l'infographie (Exemple #1)<\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n\n
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Notre travail en tant que personne de soutien n'est pas de leur remonter le moral. Pourquoi? Parce que \u00e7a ne marchera pas, le deuil n'est pas quelque chose \u00e0 r\u00e9parer. La meilleure fa\u00e7on de les aider dans leur cheminement est de les soutenir et de les \u00e9couter.
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Peur de dire la mauvaise chose alors vous d\u00e9cidez simplement de ne pas prendre contact?<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

\"Apr\u00e8s tout, certaines personnes sont meilleures que moi pour ce genre de choses. Il (ou elle) a d'autres personnes\", pourriez-vous penser. Encore une fois, pas la solution. Votre absence en ne leur parlant pas ou en ne leur \u00e9crivant pas de messages leur fera encore plus mal. Cela est particuli\u00e8rement vrai si vous \u00eates un proche, et ce, m\u00eame s'ils ont d'autres personnes. Ils penseront alors que vous vous en fichez.  
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La sensibilisation au deuil et l'empathie sont essentielles pour aider une personne en deuil<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Les exemples ci-dessous devraient vous aider \u00e0 vous sentir plus en confiance lorsque vous tiendrez la main \u00e0 un endeuill\u00e9(e). N'oublions pas que le deuil ne dure pas que quelques semaines. Cela peut arriver dans certains cas, mais souvent, le chagrin peut durer des ann\u00e9es, voire une \u00e9ternit\u00e9. C'est g\u00e9n\u00e9ralement le cas pour le d\u00e9c\u00e8s d'un(e) jeune conjoint(e) ou d'un enfant. Tant que leur personne restera importante, le chagrin restera. Ce qui signifie que vous devez dire et faire les choses (avec la coche verte) pour les ann\u00e9es \u00e0 venir. Il n'est jamais trop tard.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Quoi ne pas dire - et quoi dire au lieu<\/strong>
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Les expressions ci-dessous doivent \u00eatre \u00e9vit\u00e9es, \u00e0 moins qu'elles ne soient utilis\u00e9es par l'endeuill\u00e9(e) lui-m\u00eame. M\u00eame alors, nous devons \u00eatre prudents. Par exemple, l'endeuill\u00e9(e) pourrait dire \u00ab Un jour \u00e0 la fois \u00bb pour expliquer son propre parcours de deuil, mais cela ne signifie pas que ces mots seront r\u00e9confortants venant des autres.

L'infographie montre \u00e9galement des alternatives que les endeuill\u00e9s pr\u00e9f\u00e9reraient entendre, ainsi que des conseils sur la fa\u00e7on d'\u00eatre plus empathique. Ces exemples peuvent vous aussi \u00eatre utiles si vous c\u00f4toyez une personne malade ou si leur proche est malade.
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15 expressions \u00e0 \u00e9viter de dire \u00e0 une personne en deuil
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Les expressions religieuses n'ont pas \u00e9t\u00e9 incluses ci-dessus, mais elles doivent \u00e9galement \u00eatre \u00e9vit\u00e9es ; \u00e0 moins que vous ne soyez certain \u00e0 100 % que la personne endeuill\u00e9e partage votre foi et vos croyances dans l'au-del\u00e0. Les exemples incluent : \"Il est dans un meilleur endroit maintenant\", \"Elle est avec grand-p\u00e8re maintenant\", \"C'\u00e9tait le plan de Dieu\", \"Dieu l'a voulu au paradis\", \"Que Dieu marche \u00e0 vos c\u00f4t\u00e9s et vous guide \u00e0 travers\" et \"Vous la reverrai un jour\".<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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C\u2019est tout pour l\u2019instant!
Avez-vous des avis sur l'un des exemples ci-dessus ?
N'h\u00e9sitez pas \u00e0 les laisser ci-dessous.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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R\u00e9f\u00e9rences :<\/span>

Que dire et ne pas dire \u00e0 une personne en deuil (en anglais) : https:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/2019\/02\/14\/smarter-living\/what-to-say-and-what-not-to-say-to-someone-whos-grieving.html<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Cinq fausses croyances au sujet du deuil : https:\/\/www.fcfq.coop\/chroniques\/cinq-fausses-croyances-sujet-deuil-2408\/<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ce qu\u2019on peut dire et ne pas dire pour pr\u00e9senter des condol\u00e9ances : https:\/\/meilleures-pompes-funebres.com\/conseils\/ce-quon-peut-dire-et-ne-pas-dire-pour-presenter-des-condoleances<\/a><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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