{"id":467,"date":"2020-11-19T15:37:50","date_gmt":"2020-11-19T20:37:50","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/grievingmaman.com\/?p=467"},"modified":"2021-10-15T20:19:24","modified_gmt":"2021-10-16T00:19:24","slug":"the-year-of-firsts-is-not-done","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/grievingmaman.com\/fr\/2020\/11\/19\/the-year-of-firsts-is-not-done\/","title":{"rendered":"L'ann\u00e9e des \"premi\u00e8res\" n'est pas termin\u00e9e"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>English follows&#8230;<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-group is-layout-flow wp-block-group-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"has-text-color wp-block-paragraph\" style=\"color:#2e643e;font-size:17px\">Comme vous l\u2019avez peut-\u00eatre lu sur ma page d\u2019accueil, j\u2019ai plusieurs objectifs avec ce blogue. Un de ces objectifs est d\u2019aider et partager avec d\u2019autres endeuill\u00e9s ou d\u2019autres gens qui passent des moments difficiles. J\u2019aimerais qu\u2019on s\u2019aide \u00e0 passer \u00e0 travers nos pertes, des situations difficiles et\/ou \u00e0 se sentir moins seul. N\u2019inqui\u00e9tez-vous pas, vous n\u2019avez pas \u00e0 avoir perdu un enfant pour participer et \u00e9crire sur mon blogue.<br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-color wp-block-paragraph\" style=\"color:#2e643e;font-size:17px\">Dans les mois qui ont suivi l\u2019accident, je me suis sentie seule en tant que maman qui avait perdu un enfant de fa\u00e7on tragique. Je n\u2019\u00e9tais pas seule physiquement car nous recevions \u00e9norm\u00e9ment d\u2019aide de nos proches, et pour cela, j\u2019en serai toujours reconnaissante. Nous \u00e9tions \u00e0 l\u2019h\u00f4pital (pour Ad\u00e9lie) o\u00f9 nous \u00e9tions entour\u00e9s de gens magnifiques. Malgr\u00e9 la pr\u00e9sence et la g\u00e9n\u00e9rosit\u00e9 des gens, je me sentais tout de m\u00eame seule, mis \u00e0 part mon mari Carl qui lui aussi venait de perdre Zacka\u00ebl. Cela dit, la situation d\u2019enfer aurait \u00e9t\u00e9 encore plus p\u00e9nible sans mon conjoint.<br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-color wp-block-paragraph\" style=\"color:#2e643e;font-size:17px\">J\u2019ai finalement trouv\u00e9 un groupe de soutien sur Facebook pour parents endeuill\u00e9s. Un groupe avec des parents forts et remarquables avec qui on peut \u00e9changer notre histoire et partager nos \u00e9motions. Ce groupe, qui se nomme \u00ab Parent d\u2019un ange \u00bb, a \u00e9t\u00e9 cr\u00e9\u00e9 par Lisette Massy, une maman extraordinaire qui est vraiment l\u00e0 pour nous les . Mme Massy est la maman de Hugo St-Cyr, com\u00e9dien\/musicien que l\u2019on a connu en tant que Michel Couillard dans l\u2019\u00e9mission populaire Watatatow. Hugo est malheureusement d\u00e9c\u00e9d\u00e9 du cancer des os en 2015. J\u2019aime beaucoup ce que Mme Massy a confi\u00e9 aux TVA nouvelles <span style=\"text-decoration:underline;\"><span class=\"has-inline-color has-vivid-cyan-blue-color\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.tvanouvelles.ca\/2019\/01\/27\/deuil-dun-enfant-la-mere-du-comedien-hugo-st-cyr-temoigne\">(voir article)<\/a> <\/span><\/span>:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\"><p><span style=\"color:#28652f;\" class=\"has-inline-color\">\u00ab Sans vouloir faire de critiques, il y a juste les parents endeuill\u00e9s qui peuvent comprendre des parents endeuill\u00e9s \u00bb, affirme Mme Massy, en ajoutant qu\u2019elle a une tr\u00e8s bonne amie qui a perdu son fils, trois ans avant elle. \u00ab Je pensais que je la comprenais, mais c\u2019est le jour o\u00f9 j\u2019ai perdu mon fils que j\u2019ai compris que je n\u2019avais rien compris, explique-t-elle. \u00ab On peut imaginer la chose, mais il faut le vivre pour le comprendre. \u00bb<\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-color wp-block-paragraph\" style=\"color:#2c5d2d;font-size:17px\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-color wp-block-paragraph\" style=\"color:#2c5d2d;font-size:17px\">\u00c0 travers mes prochaines publications, je discuterai de plusieurs sujets qui ont malheureusement fait partie de notre vie durant la derni\u00e8re ann\u00e9e; deuil, trauma, blessure, anxi\u00e9t\u00e9, etc. En contrepartie, je parlerai aussi de sujets plus positifs tels la pers\u00e9v\u00e9rance, l\u2019entraide et mes enfants bien-s\u00fbr! Bonne lecture, et j\u2019esp\u00e8re de pouvoir \u00e9galement lire vos avis et avoir des discussions avec vous tous!<\/p>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"aligncenter size-large is-resized\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"571\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/grievingmaman.com\/fr\/2020\/11\/19\/the-year-of-firsts-is-not-done\/img_2790-landscape-edited\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/grievingmaman.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/img_2790-landscape-edited.jpg?fit=3713%2C2820&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"3713,2820\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;3.2&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;Canon EOS Rebel T7i&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;1570986298&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;28&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;320&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0.00625&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;1&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"IMG_2790 landscape edited\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/grievingmaman.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/img_2790-landscape-edited.jpg?fit=1024%2C778&amp;ssl=1\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/grievingmaman.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/img_2790-landscape-edited.jpg?resize=530%2C427&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"Zacka\u00ebltraumadeuilperte d'enfantgrieving parentangelFlintoff\" class=\"wp-image-571\" width=\"530\" height=\"427\"\/><figcaption>Zacka\u00ebl, environ 1 mois avant son d\u00e9c\u00e8s<\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\" style=\"font-size:17px\">As you may have read on my home page, I have several goals with this blog. One of those goals is to help and share with other bereaved or anyone who is going through difficult times. I would like us to help each other through our losses, difficult situations and\/or feel less alone. You don\u2019t have to have lost a child to participate and\/or my blog, it\u2019s for everyone!<br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\" style=\"font-size:17px\">As a mother who had tragically lost a child, I felt lonely in the months following the accident. I was not alone physically as we received a lot of help from our loved ones, and for that I will always be grateful. We were at the hospital (for Ad\u00e9lie) where we were surrounded by wonderful people. Despite the presence and generosity of so many people, I still felt alone, apart from my husband Carl who as going through the same thing I was, having just lost Zacka\u00ebl. Having said that, the hellish situation we were in would have been even more painful without my partner.<br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\" style=\"font-size:17px\">I finally found a support group on Facebook for bereaved parents. A group with strong and remarkable parents with whom we can exchange our story and share our emotions. This group, called &#8220;Parent d\u2019un ange&#8221;, was created by Lisette Massy, an amazing mom who is really there for us. Ms. Massy is the mother of Hugo St-Cyr, actor \/ musician who we knew as Michel Couillard on the popular show Watatatow. Hugo unfortunately died of bone cancer in 2015. I really like what Ms. Massy told TVA Nouvelles <a href=\"https:\/\/www.tvanouvelles.ca\/2019\/01\/27\/deuil-dun-enfant-la-mere-du-comedien-hugo-st-cyr-temoigne\">(see article)<\/a>:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\"><p>&#8220;Without wanting to be critical, only the bereaved parents can truly understand bereaved parents,&#8221; said Ms. Massy, adding that she has a very good friend who lost her son three years before her. &#8220;I thought I understood her, but it was the day I lost my son that I realized I hadn&#8217;t understood a thing,&#8221; she explains. \u201cYou can imagine it, but you have to experience it to understand it. &#8220;<\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\" style=\"font-size:17px\"><br>There is the group &#8220;The Compassionate Friends of Canada&#8221;, also on Facebook. However, I was also looking to find personal blogs from bereaved parents. 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