{"id":814,"date":"2020-12-17T12:25:27","date_gmt":"2020-12-17T17:25:27","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/grievingmaman.com\/?p=814"},"modified":"2021-02-05T13:18:06","modified_gmt":"2021-02-05T18:18:06","slug":"gone-but-never-forgotten-jamais-oublies","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/grievingmaman.com\/fr\/2020\/12\/17\/gone-but-never-forgotten-jamais-oublies\/","title":{"rendered":"Jamais oubli\u00e9s"},"content":{"rendered":"

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Jamais oubli\u00e9s<\/h1>\n\n\n\n

Depuis le d\u00e9c\u00e8s de Zacka\u00ebl, Carl et moi sommes particuli\u00e8rement touch\u00e9s quand nous entendons d\u2019autres histoires tragiques, surtout lorsque d\u2019autres enfants ou jeunes personnes d\u00e9c\u00e8dent. Nous comprenons malheureusement la douleur et le vide que ces parents endeuill\u00e9s ressentent.

Le 13 d\u00e9cembre dernier \u00e9tait la journ\u00e9e mondiale des enfants partis trop t\u00f4t. Cet \u00e9v\u00e9nement est reconnu comme le plus grand recueil d\u2019illumination de bougies \u00e0 travers le globe. \u00c0 19h pr\u00e9cises, les communaut\u00e9s \u00e0 travers le monde ont allum\u00e9 une chandelle pendant une heure. Pour ma part, j\u2019avais allum\u00e9 une chandelle verte en l\u2019honneur de mon Zacka\u00ebl. L\u2019autre chandelle, je l\u2019avais allum\u00e9e pour tous les enfants partis trop vite. J\u2019ai pens\u00e9 \u00e0 la petite Laurence, fille de ma cousine Sophie. J\u2019ai pens\u00e9 \u00e0 la petite Genevieve, cousine de Carl.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Chandelles allum\u00e9es le 13 d\u00e9cembre<\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n


Je continuerai toujours de penser \u00e0 tous les enfants qui ne sont plus de ce monde, ainsi qu\u2019\u00e0 leurs parents. Certains parents ont perdu 2 ou 3 enfants dans un accident de la route, c\u2019est tellement injuste et inhumain. Ce sont les parents les plus forts que je connaisse.

Je pense continuellement \u00e0 Clare McBride qui a perdu ses deux filles dans un accident de la route, caus\u00e9 par un conducteur ivre qui n\u2019a pas fait son arr\u00eat. Voici une photo des petites Oksana (6 ans) et Quinn (4 ans), ainsi que leur maman Clare.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Je n\u2019\u00e9tais pas au courant que Clare publiait \u00e9galement un blogue. Clare vient de me le partager, je vous recommande d\u2019aller lire son blogue. Voici une lettre particuli\u00e8rement poignante, d\u00e9di\u00e9e au conducteur. La lettre commence par :<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cDear Joe *, On August 16th 2019 you killed both of my children, Lucy *, 6, and Betty *, 4.\u201d <\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Voici le lien pour la version int\u00e9grale.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Il est important de continuer de parler de nos enfants, m\u00eame s\u2019ils ne sont plus ici physiquement. Parfois, beaucoup de proches croient, \u00e0 tort, qu\u2019il est mieux d\u2019\u00e9viter de mentionner l\u2019enfant d\u00e9c\u00e9d\u00e9 en pr\u00e9sence du parent endeuill\u00e9. Ils croient que s\u2019ils parlent d\u2019eux, ils risquent d\u2019apporter du chagrin au parent. C\u2019est tout \u00e0 fait le contraire. La plupart des parents endeuill\u00e9s souhaitent que les gens continuent de parler de leur(s) enfant(s) parti(s) trop t\u00f4t. En fait, la pire chose \u00e0 faire est d\u2019ignorer qu\u2019ils ont exist\u00e9 et ignor\u00e9 leur deuil et leur perte, ceci peut m\u00eame faire mal au parent endeuill\u00e9.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Je continuerai toujours de parler de Zacka\u00ebl. Zacka\u00ebl n\u2019a plus la chance de se faire conna\u00eetre, mais moi, je peux le faire conna\u00eetre aux autres. Aujourd\u2019hui, je suis fi\u00e8re de partager une anecdote \u00e0 son sujet, et je continuerai d\u2019en partager de temps \u00e0 temps.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Photos scolaires de Zacka\u00ebl
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Quelques semaines avant l\u2019accident, au d\u00e9but d\u2019octobre 2019, nous avions re\u00e7u des \u00e9preuves des photos d\u2019\u00e9cole de Zacka\u00ebl. En les regardant, j\u2019ai dit \u00e0 Zacka\u00ebl quelque chose comme \u00ab tu es mignon, mais tu ris un peu trop, on ne voit pas tes beaux yeux. Peut-\u00eatre que pour la prochaine photo, tu pourrais sourire juste un petit peu moins. \u00bb. Toute cette conversation s\u2019\u00e9tait dite vite faite. Je trouvais que Zacka\u00ebl ne se ressemblait pas sur les photos.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Zacka\u00ebl, septembre 2019 \u2013 Credit: Photomania (photomania.ca)<\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n

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Quelques semaines plus tard, le 23 octobre, je suis all\u00e9e chercher les enfants \u00e0 l\u2019\u00e9cole apr\u00e8s le travail. Zacka\u00ebl s\u2019est aussit\u00f4t exprim\u00e9 qu\u2019il avait une reprise de photos, tout en me r\u00e9confortant qu\u2019il n\u2019avait pas trop souri. J\u2019ai r\u00e9pondu \u00e0 Zacka\u00ebl que je ne savais pas que c\u2019\u00e9tait les reprises cette journ\u00e9e-l\u00e0, j\u2019\u00e9tais un peu d\u00e9\u00e7ue d\u2019apprendre ceci car je l\u2019aurais mieux habill\u00e9. Il portait des joggings tr\u00e8s us\u00e9s et un t-shirt de Star Wars. Je lui ai demand\u00e9 si son sourire \u00e9tait moins exag\u00e9r\u00e9 que la derni\u00e8re fois. Il m\u2019a r\u00e9pondu \u00ab oui \u00bb. Tout cela m\u2019avait surpris; le fait qu\u2019il s\u2019en avait rappel\u00e9. Apr\u00e8s tout, je lui avais dit qu\u2019une seule fois (de ne pas trop rire la prochaine fois) et \u00e7a faisait une vingtaine de jours depuis cette conversation.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u2019est ainsi qu\u2019au d\u00e9but novembre, je re\u00e7ois les nouvelles \u00e9preuves de la photo de Zacka\u00ebl. Ces photos m\u2019ont fait tellement rire. Zacka\u00ebl avait vraiment port\u00e9 attention \u00e0 ce que je lui avait dit au d\u00e9but octobre, mais peut-\u00eatre un peu trop! Il s\u2019\u00e9tait rappel\u00e9 qu\u2019il ne pouvait pas trop sourire aux prochaines photos\u2026 en voici donc le r\u00e9sultat ci-dessous! Quelle diff\u00e9rence entre les deux, c\u2019est tellement dr\u00f4le quand on les compare!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Zacka\u00ebl, le 23 octobre 2019 \u2013 Cr\u00e9dit: Photomania (photomania.ca)<\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n

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Zacka\u00ebl a toujours \u00e9t\u00e9 un gar\u00e7on qui \u00e9coutait bien. Quand on lui disait quelque chose, il portait attention et s\u2019en rappelait. Il \u00e9tait tr\u00e8s observateur.\n\nM\u00eame si \u00e0 ces deux moments-l\u00e0, j\u2019aurais aim\u00e9 une photo avec un sourire l\u2019o\u00f9 on peut bien voir ses beaux yeux, il reste que j\u2019adore ces deux belles photos. Elles d\u00e9montrent comment mignon il \u00e9tait, m\u00eame avec un sourire pendu jusqu\u2019au oreilles, ou m\u00eame s\u00e9rieux. Elles d\u00e9montrent comment attentif il \u00e9tait quand je lui parlais. Et avant tout, ces photos repr\u00e9sentent un souvenir que je garde pr\u00e9cieusement dans mon c\u0153ur, seulement quelques semaines avant son d\u00e9part. Je t\u2019aime Zacka\u00ebl.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u2019est tout pour l\u2019instant. J'esp\u00e8re que vous avez aim\u00e9 ce souvenir de Zacka\u00ebl.
S.v.p. partager vos r\u00e9flexions dans les commentaires au bas de la page. Merci de continuer \u00e0 laisser des commentaires, ils sont toujours appr\u00e9ci\u00e9s!\nN\u2019h\u00e9sitez pas \u00e0 laisser aussi des messages pour les autres parents endeuill\u00e9s.

Si vous avez appr\u00e9ci\u00e9 cette publication, vous pouvez vous abonner en inscrivant votre courriel et cliquer \u00abAbonnez\u00bb pour recevoir les prochaines!<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Il est important de continuer \u00e0 parler de nos enfants d\u00e9c\u00e9d\u00e9s. Les proches pensent \u00e0 tort qu'il vaut mieux \u00e9viter de mentionner l'enfant d\u00e9c\u00e9d\u00e9 en pr\u00e9sence du parent endeuill\u00e9. 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