In a Blink of an Eye


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Five years ago, our lives were forever changed in a blink of an eye. The impact of the accident was so fast that I didn’t realize what had happened. Ironically, what happened so fast, was followed by what felt like an eternity. It was the start of a nightmare that would never end.

To say that everything happens for a reason is BS. There is absolutely no reason why my five-year-old son died suddenly and my daughter got a permanent brain injury. Anyone who think that there’s a reason for the loss of a child or the injury/sickness of a child is simply heartless.

There are so many things I would love to share on this blog. However, for numerous reasons, I am not able to post often. If I choose to write today, it is to remember and commemorate Zackaël.

To celebrate Zackaël’s life, I’ve written 10 things I loved about Zackaël.

10 Things I Love about You

1. Zackaël, you were a very funny and silly little boy.



2. Zackaël, you were sweet, caring, and always wanted to make us happy.



3. Zackaël, you were a great listener, you didn’t talk too much and liked to observe.



4. Zackaël, you had the most beautiful blue eyes I’ve ever seen. You had dark long eyelashes, which are hard to see in photos. And when you had a big smile, you had the cutest squinty eyes.



5. Zackaël, as you became a big boy, you would never get upset. You would never complain and were very brave.



6. Zackaël, you were so athletic and active.


7. Zackaël, you were your brother’s best friend, your sister’s protector and joyful brother, and a perfect son for us.



8. Zackaël, you had excellent visual memory. You always impressed me with visual games (like this one below) and you would remember things like the color of a shirt someone wore.



9. Zackaël, you would always jump and do headstands. I wanted to sign you up for gymnastics.



10. Zackaël, you were very popular and had many friends. You even had a friend who left you a message on this blog this month, on your page. It is so touching to read.

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18 responses to “In a Blink of an Eye”

  1. Laura Avatar
    Laura

    What a beautiful post. 5 years really has gone so fast. Always in our thoughts. Beautiful Zackaël

  2. Janelle Avatar
    Janelle

    J’ai pensé à toi ma chère Brigitte aujourd’hui. Le nom de Zackaël est inscrit dans mon calendrier. Merci de partager ces belles photos de Zackaël et de garder sa mémoire vive. On ne l’oubliera jamais, c’est certain.

  3. Lara Morin Avatar
    Lara Morin

    Beautiful post, for a beautiful boy. Thank you for sharing Brigitte. ♥️

  4. Sarah Davis Avatar
    Sarah Davis

    Your family has been on our minds, Brigitte. What a beautiful post about a wonderful son. We will always remember him. Sending love to you, Carl, Maxandre and Adélie. Zackaël, you sure were a special boy.

  5. Micheline Lehoux Avatar
    Micheline Lehoux

    Comme tu sais bien décrire l’amour d’une maman qui perd son petit ange Cela ne devrais jamais arriver qu’un parent perdre son enfant ce n’es pas dans la normalité car c’est une douleur permanente pour les parents à vie ont apprends juste à vivre avec . Je pense fort à toi et ta famille même si je t’es jamais rencontrer j’ai un sentiment d’une grande compréhension envers toi car ayant moi aussi perdu une fille merveilleuse . Tes photos sont super belles et bien décrit merci 🙏🙏

  6. Constance Avatar
    Constance

    Bonjour Brigitte,
    Je viens de lire ton article “En un clin d’oeil.” Tellement touchant 💚 J’ai souri en te lisant, plusieurs beaux souvenirs me sont revenus à l’esprit… et d’apprendre que Zaki a laissé un message. Wow! Je me souviens encore combien Zaki s’inquiétait à savoir où était Zackaël après qu’il nous ait quitté. Brigitte, tu ne me croiras peut-être pas mais hier matin, j’ai eu une envie de nettoyer un tiroir de ma chambre et j’ai trouvé le message que j’ai lu à l’église pour commémorer Zackaël. Ça m’a fait sourire de me rappeler de votre beau, gentil, serviable, aimable et drôle petit garçon! Comme je l’avais mentionné dans son message, “merci de m’avoir donné la chance d’être sa première enseignante.” xxxx

  7. Daniel Aubin Avatar
    Daniel Aubin

    On pense à toi et ta famille en ces temps difficiles

  8. Yvonne Camiré-Lehoux Avatar
    Yvonne Camiré-Lehoux

    Tu n’aurais pas pu mieux commémorer la vie de Zackaël chère Brigitte. C’est tellement touchant de te lire et de voir toutes ces belles photos et vidéos. Cinq ans de cauchemar comme tu y réfères, c’est injuste. Zackaël restera toujours présent dans mon coeur, et je continuerai toujours Brigitte de te soutenir autant que je pourrai. Gros câlins spécialement en cette journée difficile.

  9. CMH Avatar
    CMH

    This is a beautiful tribute to your son. I think of Zackael and your family often. 💕

  10. Aris Finnson Avatar
    Aris Finnson

    I’ve been thinking of you and reflecting on how your journey is going. The anniversary of that day must hold so much pain and yet you want to ensure his memory stays alive. Thank you for sharing the small details of Zachaël.

    His smile and beautiful blue eyes are so beautiful and he will never be forgotten. Xoxo

  11. Crystal Garnett Avatar
    Crystal Garnett

    I have been thinking about Zackaël all month, remembering that 5 years have passed since he became an angel, and that he would be 10 years old now. You are absolutely right, there is no possible reason for the loss of a child. I’m so sorry that this happened to you and your family.

    Thank you for sharing these sweet memories of Zackaël. The pictures and videos made me smile and laugh. He really was a funny and loving little guy, and so athletic! So fast on his bike and on skates! When I first met Zack as a baby, there was a serenity, calmness and positivity about him that really stood out to me. He left this world much to soon, but in the time that he was here he left his footprint in many hearts and he will never be forgotten. Sending you and your family love.

  12. Judy Avatar
    Judy

    What a beautiful tribute. I played that colour game with Adelie a couple of weeks ago. I was so happy to see you still had it, because as we played I remembered playing it with Zackael. I could never get it right, and he would laugh, and show me how to do it. He was a wizard at that game. We all miss him, and think of him every day.

  13. Denver Avatar
    Denver

    I love all Zack’s funny faces in #1. He was such a little monkey! I can’t believe how confidently he was biking after his first try! I don’t think I’ve ever seen a 4 year old skate that fast!! What an amazing little boy. We all miss him so much.

  14. Margaret Lesarge Avatar
    Margaret Lesarge

    Such beautiful pictures and memories of this beautiful boy., I often think of the video you posted of him skating and how fast he went for such a small boy. Your pictures of him are touching.
    “ death leaves a heartache nothing can heal
    Love leaves a memory no one can steal”

  15. Diane Larose Avatar
    Diane Larose

    Je te fais un plein d’amour ma chère Brigitte! 💖👼🌹

  16. Andreanne Camire-Tremblay Avatar
    Andreanne Camire-Tremblay

    Bel hommage. J’aime apprendre à connaître Zackaël à travers ces publications.

  17. Yasaman Avatar
    Yasaman

    Five years! How is that even possible? What a beautiful tribute to a wonderful little boy. I cried when I read your post, Brigitte. Rest in peace, sweet Zackaël’

  18. Renee Larose Avatar
    Renee Larose

    Missing you Zack, wishing you were here to play and make your cousins laugh. 💚

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